Ngoku yiloo nto endiyibiza ngokuba bubudlelwane bokwenene bomzalwana nodade—baliqela! Kwaye batsha ngobudenge, kuba udade ekugqibeleni wabuza ngokuvakalayo ukuba wangena ngaphakathi kuye. Kwaye ke - zonke iintshukumo ziphuculwe kwaye zikhunjulwe - kuyacaca ukuba abakwenzi okokuqala.
Andazi ngalo bhuti ungadinwayo, ndicinga ukuba wadinwa) Oodade ngokuqinisekileyo bakwi-positive. Indlela ababhaqwe ngayo ngumama wabo nalo bhuti bazimela, yayicingwe kakuhle. Kodwa bathe xa beqhubeka wabe lo mama noba ungubani andimazi ehleli ecaleni kwabo, ndandingaqondi ukuba beyenzela ntoni lonto. Bekumnandi ukubukela, ngakumbi oosisi, ubhuti ebemane engenzi nto kwikliphu, ebengade aboniswe.