Ukuba umfana uneengxaki zemali, unethamsanqa ukuba abe nentombi. Usenokuhamba engenakhaya. Kodwa nangoko, ukohlukana nentombi yakhe ngolo hlobo, ngenxa yemali, aze ayinyebelezele kumhlobo wakhe. Ewe, iyaphambana indlela azakumjonga ngayo apha emehlweni, xa imali ingazukuba yingxaki. Uninzi lwazo zonke zandichukumisa indlela intombazana, ngokujonga okwanelisekile, yathatha imbewu yalo mhlobo osisityebi. Ngelo xesha ndandizibuza ukuba usamdinga na lo mfana wakhe.
Andiqondi ukuba kubi ngokwaneleyo ukwenza ukuzanelisa. Ndingakulungela ukumfaka kwindawo yomntwana-iesile lisabonakala linomtsalane kakhulu. Kwaye amabele ahexayo, intamo eshwabeneyo kunye nobuso obugugileyo abubonakali.